Ho-ho-ho! It may be the most wonderful time of the year, but it's also super stressful. The pressure to perform is on during the holidays. You might be looking to post fairytale-esque holiday pics to the grid, but family drama and other frustrations are brewing beneath the surface. Plus, Mercury retrograde lasts from December 13 to January 1 (with the pre-retrograde beginning on November 25) and brings its own bag of challenges like financial woes, travel issues, squabbles over political beliefs, friends flaking on plans, miscommunications that can lead to arguments, and old ghosts reappearing out of the blue. All the more reason why we need to find our chill to thrive and survive. Use this holiday horoscope guide as a way to navigate the season's energy. As always, you got this!
Aries
Patience is a virtue — one that is hard for your passionate and fiery nature. You’ll learn how to be tolerant of others when you're not in alignment with their ideology. Usually, you erupt like a volcano due to the pushy nature and juxtaposing views of your kin, but you are becoming aware that you can shift their beliefs if you aren't reactive and express yourself with kindness.
Taurus
Your Venusian approach to life pushes you to desire indulgences and decadence. You like being gifted finer things and there is no shame in your game. However, that does not mean that your ideal presents are in the budget of your Secret Santa. Be reasonable with your expectations. Don’t get upset if you aren’t being given the opulent luxury gifts you desire. Appreciate the thoughtfulness and sentiment behind it.
Gemini
Step away from your phone and be present. Disconnect from social media and texting to live in the moment. You’ll appreciate that notion on New Year’s Eve, because the evening will provide time to connect with your friends, family, and boo on an intimate and deep level. You can't do that if you’re watching TikTok videos all evening and responding to every message you are receiving. Be here now, Gemini.
Cancer
It's been a long time since you've had time to reflect upon how far you have come and where you are going. Give yourself the ultimate gift — TLC, self-appreciation, courage, and gratitude. No one deserves it more than you and it’ll help in grounding your energy. And a big hug. After all, you're always the one nurturing others. It's time you did the same for yourself and then some.
Leo
Yes, you are the center of the party. But this year you’ve been so busy trying to find your footing and purpose that you haven't allowed yourself to engage in pure fun. Words of advice: Stop taking everything so seriously. You should reclaim your role as the vivacious and lively lion that you are. Forget about your worries for the time being and remember you have a wonderful life.
Virgo
The desire for perfection gives you unnecessary anxiety. Don’t burden yourself. Embrace the messiness that will arise — especially since Mercury enters the retroshade zone on November 25 and retrograde will be in full force from December 13 to January 1. Guest will arrive late, dinner could turn out overcooked, and an ex might crash your plans with friends. Go with the flow and leave space for errors and the unforeseen.
Libra
Real talk: You don't like to rock the boat. As a result, you often find yourself taking on more than you can handle to show others that you care and to be copacetic. However, you might find yourself becoming frazzled with the amount of errands you're being asked to do. Instead of agreeing to last-minute runs for decorations and gifts, put your foot down and say “no” before experiencing holiday burnout.
Scorpio
At times you can be somewhat controlling — especially when you have a vision about the way the holidays should be. This becomes a problem when friends and family members want to do their own thing and celebrate their own way (which they are allowed to do). Before you instigate an argument or confrontation, consider compromising and finding a middle ground. That way everyone can be happy and content — including you.
Sagittarius
Being at home with your brood 24/7 will prove to be challenging for your autonomous spirit. Make sure that you take a drive or walk by yourself to have a moment of freedom. Even taking a hike or building a snowman will give you enough time to temper frustrations or annoyances you might be feeling before you argue over politics or other matters with some of your family.
Capricorn
You like to be a boss in all aspects of life — but you're finding that taking a step back from the holiday agenda by letting someone else take the lead allows you to sit back and enjoy the celebration for once. Of course, you can help clean up at the end of the day. You don't have to oversee the activities and events.
Aquarius
The past semester at school was a lot on an emotional and fundamental level. As a result, you are exhausted and in need of reprieve from the scholastic stresses you've endured. Use this time to rest and relax. A self-care activity like taking a soothing bath with Epsom salt and fresh roses will melt away your worries and help you reclaim your chill attitude by adding pep to your step.
Pisces
Being a sensitive and empathetic person means that you tend to soak up the vibe of those around you. Energy is contagious, which is why it is important to protect yours. If that means taking a break or two at family gatherings to center yourself and getting a few moments of fresh air to decompress — do it. Make sure you take the time to decompress and strengthen your inner spirit.